pronounced are-s] This is commonly used to refer to the bottom area, and is applicable to either the male or female bottom area. Can also be used on its own to express frustration or annoyance - eg "Arse, my computer's broken" Not to be confused with "Ass" which is some kind of American horse Bender [pronounced ben-der] Polite inference of homosexuality in a gentleman - eg "I think Clive may be a bit of a Bender" Confusingly, also refers to an elongated drinking session - eg "We're going on a bit of a Bender this weekend"