a man," he said

a man that desires another man

a man whose primary sexual and romantic attraction is to other men

a man whose primary sexual (or other) attraction is to other men

A man who experiences the human need for warmth, affection, and love from other men. Sometimes this includes sexual contact.

A man who forms sexual and affectionate relationships with other men. Identification with any particular "label" may be culturally, economically, generationally, geographically, or politically influenced. Other terms (some which are considered derogatory) include (but are not limited to): fairy, faggot, men "in the life", queers, "family", and "members of the church." Alternately, a man may not identify with any label.